Or maybe we're different and trans people think that we need to be the same to be equal. And that's just transphobic.
Sure, I usually just call myself a woman and prefer not to dwell on my transness, but there are times when a distinction between a cis woman and I needs to be made. This is especially true when discussing biology.
But some people just need to be offended by everything, even when it's already inclusive.
This is something I have thought about for 20 years.